A seriously SUCKY resolutions list


Hey Reader!

When I was in my 20s, I wrote a resolutions list that, no joke, included the following.

  • No boyfriend -> Find soul mate.
  • No job -> Find fulfilling job.
  • In debt -> Get out of debt and start saving.
  • Too big -> Lose 25 pounds.
  • Living at home -> Find place of own.
  • No friends -> Make new friends.

First, oh, my love. ❤️ I'm sending this past Kara so much grace because it was a seriously hard time in my life - I was living with my parents after traveling the world for a year and re-entry was ROUGH.

Secondly, OMG. What was I thinking?!?!! Wanna know how many of them I accomplished? Big surprise, but not a one.

It was perhaps a bit ambitious?

Also, the list seriously sucks.

Like who wants to have to do all the worst things at once - curb your spending, lose weight, date, meet new friends, job hunt. It's like I asked the Universe to deliver a recipe for heartbreak and disappointment and then gifted it to myself.

You'll be happy to know, I did eventually complete the list, but it took until, like, yesterday.

Which is to say, most of us are TERRIBLE at making resolutions.

We choose what we think we're supposed to want, we make them too big, we create these monster lists that set us up for failure and then beat ourselves up for it.

Not on my watch.

For the past 12 years, I have completed my resolution EVERY SINGLE YEAR. That's right. Give this gal a gold star and, why yes, a crown because I am the Resolution Queen.

And I want to teach it all to you!

Join me for a free, 45 minute class:

🎉 How to Make Resolutions You'll Actually Keep
👉 December 30th at 10am MST

By the end of the class, you will be a Resolution / Goal-Setting MASTER.

You'll have a reusable criteria to run your resolutions through to make sure they're accomplishable, plus a bunch of categories to simplify the whole process.

The biggest thing? You'll leave with a resolution you'll be dying to get going on. No sucky lists, pinkie swear!

Come on and join the fun!

xx. Kara

PS: I'm not going to send a bunch of emails about this because I'm very busy reading and lounging on my couch, feeding myself sugar cookies and hot chocolate so if you even kinda think you want to attend, SIGN UP!

My feelings won't be hurt if you can't make it (although I am very fun in person) and you'll get a replay. 🎉

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