You are not a robot 🚫 🤖


Hey Reader!

I say this a lot, but it's especially important at this time of year: You are a human being, not a robot.

I know, I know! It feels so damn good to tick all the boxes and hit your Martha Stewart marks.

That is, until you fall apart in the grocery aisle at Trader Joe's because they're out of Kringle and now what are you supposed to feed everyone on Christmas morning?!?!

Well, I'm here to make you feel better about your non-droid status and share just a few of the ways I'm woefully ill-prepared for the season so you feel better about yours!

Little drummer boy drum roll, please...

  • I started out really strong with my present game this year, getting a whole bunch of gifts done in OCTOBER (Look at you, you organized diva!). But then, I was so busy congratulating myself, I forgot to finish it so now I'm back where I always am - frantically trying to squeeze gifts in before shipping deadlines and WILL I NEVER LEARN?!?!
  • We have guests coming and we literally can't shut the closet door in their room. Will I make the time to figure it out? No one knows!
  • Omg, I just realized I need to buy teacher gifts! What am I going to buy for teacher gifts!?!?!
  • Want to see our new rug? So do we! Our bedroom has been like this for the past three weeks because I keep forgetting it's like this until I go to bed and then I'm just too damn tired.
  • I remembered my best friend's birthday all day yesterday, but kept forgetting to text her until 10pm, which looks like I forgot even though I swear I didn't.
  • I was realllly trying with the outdoor decorations this year, but didn't read the description carefully and bought these very dumb 2D reindeer that keep falling over. Way too much of my brain space is dedicated to whether or not I should keep them and how annoyed I am that I didn't spend the extra 20 bucks for 3D ones.
  • -You can't eat cookies with wheat, Kara, or you will get sick.
    -But they look so good.
    -You will regret it.
    -But, I'm so sad for myself.
    -Don't do...
    -Oh god, why did I eat that?!?!?!!? I feel TERRIBLE!!!
  • Seriously, what am I going to get the teachers?!?!?

Feel better? 😂

We are human beings, not robots, and this time of year is a lot so we're going to mess up and forget things and do things wrong and IT'S NOT THE END OF THE WORLD, pinkie swear.

So, here's to shoving everything into closets before people come over, serving premade appetizers (spinach dip is always a winner!), and cutting yourself some serious slack.

You're doing a FANTASTIC JOB.

xx. Kara

PS: Pretty sure, you're going to need some recovery time in the New Year and my email accountability program is a perfect way to make sure you're showing up for yourself on the regular!

It's fast (just one email / week), fun (you commit to doing one fulfilling thing for yourself / week) and affordable (less than $10 / week). 🎉

And, just for subscribers, I'm throwing in an one hour coaching session if you sign up by December 20th.

Let's put yourself on your calendar next year, k? It'll make getting through the chaos, oh, so much more bearable.

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